The world can be a tough place so if you're in need of an escape and some understanding you're welcome here.

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I recently let a friend who I thought could be trusted know about my darkest secret. Ever since then ( she had originally told told me i was perfect the way i was ect..) she has made fun of me, and been playing mind games. What should I do?

If you’ve told her that her behaviour is mean and upsetting, and she refuses to apologise and change her behaviour, then I think you should end that friendship. It’s possible she doesn’t know how much she’s hurting you or just how horrible she’s being, so give her a chance if you haven’t already, but don’t give her an endless amount of chances. That might sound harsh but you deserve to be happy and you can’t be with someone like that around you and so it would be completely reasonable of you to try and cut her out of your life.

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Anonymous said:
is it normal for an INFJ to be really clingy and attached to their close friends\ partners? I'm starting to realize this in myself quite a lot

I think it’s normal for INFJs to want really close and intense relationships, so clinginess could come out of that. 

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Anonymous said:
For a couple hours of socializing, I need like three days to recover and recharge.

That does seem a little excessive, even for an INFJ. But as long as you’re physically and mentally healthy, there’s nothing wrong with it. 

greek mythology + personality types

mhythology:

basically the figure from greek mythology that i think fits in best with each personality type! (find out yours here)

infp (healer) - cassandra

enfp (champion) - achilles

enfj (teacher) - chiron

infj (counselor) - patroclus

estj (supervisor) - hephastaeus 

istj (inspector) - atalanta

esfj (providor) - zeus

isfj (protector) - hestia

estp (promoter) - atë

istp (crafter) - artemis

esfp (performer) - apollo

isfp (composer) - dionysus

entj (field marshal) - odysseus

intj (mastermind) - athena

entp (inventor) - hermes

intp (architect) - muses

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Anonymous said:
How do you think a relationship would be between two INFJs? I am currently interested in a fellow INFJ and he seems to be interested back. There are very wonderful characteristics and interests that we both share, and I'm just wondering some tips and opinions that you might have for if we should actually get somewhere.

I think it could be wonderful! However, INFJ’s are typically pretty intense people so two of them in a relationship might get very intense. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing but something to be aware of. I wish you all the best! 

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Anonymous said:
Hello there, I was wondering if you could help me with something (sorry if I'm being a nuisance). I'm an INFJ, and I really really like (maybe even love) an INTP. I think he could feel similar about me, but I'm not sure (we laugh often together, we have deep philosophical conversations, we've hugged, and even held hands once, and, according to outside sources, we stare at each other a lot- (sorry for the pda). But I feel like we're both hesitant and shy. Do you have any tips on how to proceed?

Hi, you’re not being a nuisance! I like getting asks! From what you’ve said, it does seem like the feeling is probably mutual. As for tips, being honest has usually served me best. If the time and situation are right, I think you should tell him how much you like him. Even if he only thinks of you as a friend, he will like to be told how much you appreciate him and the friendship you have (because everyone likes to hear kind things, especially if they’re true). I know it’ll take a bit of bravery, but I think you should try and be honest about how you feel. Good luck!

thehighlysensitiveperson:

humansofnewyork:

"I’m afraid of everything. I’ve been reading psychology books to try to figure out why. Logically, I know everything is fine. I know that I’m only twenty, and I have so many blessings and advantages. Yet I’m afraid I haven’t accomplished enough yet. I’m afraid of the future. Afraid of getting older. Afraid of being alone. Afraid of having a child. And afraid of the dark. I’m really, really afraid of the dark."(Kiev, Ukraine)

My exact sentiments…

thehighlysensitiveperson:

humansofnewyork:

"I’m afraid of everything. I’ve been reading psychology books to try to figure out why. Logically, I know everything is fine. I know that I’m only twenty, and I have so many blessings and advantages. Yet I’m afraid I haven’t accomplished enough yet. I’m afraid of the future. Afraid of getting older. Afraid of being alone. Afraid of having a child. And afraid of the dark. I’m really, really afraid of the dark."

(Kiev, Ukraine)

My exact sentiments…

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“INFJs are guided by a deeply considered set of personal values.”
—  Profile of the INFJ Personality Type | Truity (via infine-infj)
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jazzzpeace:

Me flirting: Are you an introvert?

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quarrels:

took another personality type quiz and the highlighted part is my life

lollicatgoesmeow:

All I want to do is make art. Art is my #distraction and #escape to feel #free #artistproblems #bpd #problems #takemefarfaraway #passion #infj #intj

lollicatgoesmeow:

All I want to do is make art. Art is my #distraction and #escape to feel #free #artistproblems #bpd #problems #takemefarfaraway #passion #infj #intj

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myquietobservations:

INFJ’s and their empath ways.

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