If you’ve told her that her behaviour is mean and upsetting, and she refuses to apologise and change her behaviour, then I think you should end that friendship. It’s possible she doesn’t know how much she’s hurting you or just how horrible she’s being, so give her a chance if you haven’t already, but don’t give her an endless amount of chances. That might sound harsh but you deserve to be happy and you can’t be with someone like that around you and so it would be completely reasonable of you to try and cut her out of your life.
I think it’s normal for INFJs to want really close and intense relationships, so clinginess could come out of that.
That does seem a little excessive, even for an INFJ. But as long as you’re physically and mentally healthy, there’s nothing wrong with it.
basically the figure from greek mythology that i think fits in best with each personality type! (find out yours here)
infp (healer) - cassandra
enfp (champion) - achilles
enfj (teacher) - chiron
infj (counselor) - patroclus
estj (supervisor) - hephastaeus
istj (inspector) - atalanta
esfj (providor) - zeus
isfj (protector) - hestia
estp (promoter) - atë
istp (crafter) - artemis
esfp (performer) - apollo
isfp (composer) - dionysus
entj (field marshal) - odysseus
intj (mastermind) - athena
entp (inventor) - hermes
intp (architect) - muses
I think it could be wonderful! However, INFJ’s are typically pretty intense people so two of them in a relationship might get very intense. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing but something to be aware of. I wish you all the best!
Hi, you’re not being a nuisance! I like getting asks! From what you’ve said, it does seem like the feeling is probably mutual. As for tips, being honest has usually served me best. If the time and situation are right, I think you should tell him how much you like him. Even if he only thinks of you as a friend, he will like to be told how much you appreciate him and the friendship you have (because everyone likes to hear kind things, especially if they’re true). I know it’ll take a bit of bravery, but I think you should try and be honest about how you feel. Good luck!
"I’m afraid of everything. I’ve been reading psychology books to try to figure out why. Logically, I know everything is fine. I know that I’m only twenty, and I have so many blessings and advantages. Yet I’m afraid I haven’t accomplished enough yet. I’m afraid of the future. Afraid of getting older. Afraid of being alone. Afraid of having a child. And afraid of the dark. I’m really, really afraid of the dark."
My exact sentiments…
All I want to do is make art. Art is my #distraction and #escape to feel #free #artistproblems #bpd #problems #takemefarfaraway #passion #infj #intj
INFJ’s and their empath ways.