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Hello! I don’t know if it’s normal for INFJs. For me, I prefer the people I’m close to, to have the same values and ideology as me and I always thought that was because my values are very important to me, so it’s interesting to hear your point of view.
I used to consider it a bit T-ish to separate people from their values and ideology (and therefore be okay with people around not having the same ones) but that was just a theory I had.
Thank you Anon. :)
In this period of stress (only 3 days to go!) I find myself both giving and getting strong feelings.
I’ve seen INFJs described many times as being very moral, ethical people, which I find to be both true and false.
For me personally, I have my own set of morals and ethics that may differ from the “mainstream” or commonly accepted morals/ethics. In the US, I think a lot of our morals/ethics comes from Christianity - even though I was raised Christian, I’m not religious and can’t blindly accept anything. But even if they didn’t come from religion, I can’t just take someone else’s morals as my own just because they’re “right”. I question everything and have been ever since I can remember.
That being said, I do follow my own morals and ethics very closely. I rarely stray from what I personally consider to be right, though if new information makes me question previously held beliefs, I’ll explore it again and sometimes even change my stance on things.
Any other INFJs want to weigh in? How do you see morality and ethics?
/ INFJ / im not part of me | bc infjs are so emo like we have no chill
1. im not part of me / cloud nothings | 2. yesterday / pencey prep | 3. lonely eyes / the front bottoms | 4. two good things / modern baseball | 5. 27 / fall out boy | 6. everything is alright / motion city soundtrack | 7. heavy metal heart / sky ferreira | 8. graceless / the national | 9. early sunsets over monroeville (demo) / my chemical romance
Yep, I hear you. I do sometimes wonder though if we cling onto being different and let it form too much of our identity. I dunno, just a thought…
I usually keep my crushes a secret from my friends. I don’t often open up about my most intimate feelings except to maybe one friend.
I think INFJs often keep things secret in general because they’re used to not being understood, or because they’re often very private people.
I’m not sure it’s ‘normal’ to have a crush on someone for that long. I’ve never experienced anything like that so tbh I don’t know. Don’t worry too much about being normal though, it isn’t necessary to be normal.
If you’ve told her that her behaviour is mean and upsetting, and she refuses to apologise and change her behaviour, then I think you should end that friendship. It’s possible she doesn’t know how much she’s hurting you or just how horrible she’s being, so give her a chance if you haven’t already, but don’t give her an endless amount of chances. That might sound harsh but you deserve to be happy and you can’t be with someone like that around you and so it would be completely reasonable of you to try and cut her out of your life.
I think it’s normal for INFJs to want really close and intense relationships, so clinginess could come out of that.
That does seem a little excessive, even for an INFJ. But as long as you’re physically and mentally healthy, there’s nothing wrong with it.
basically the figure from greek mythology that i think fits in best with each personality type! (find out yours here)
infp (healer) - cassandra
enfp (champion) - achilles
enfj (teacher) - chiron
infj (counselor) - patroclus
estj (supervisor) - hephastaeus
istj (inspector) - atalanta
esfj (providor) - zeus
isfj (protector) - hestia
estp (promoter) - atë
istp (crafter) - artemis
esfp (performer) - apollo
isfp (composer) - dionysus
entj (field marshal) - odysseus
intj (mastermind) - athena
entp (inventor) - hermes
intp (architect) - muses
I think it could be wonderful! However, INFJ’s are typically pretty intense people so two of them in a relationship might get very intense. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing but something to be aware of. I wish you all the best!